How to Have Threesome Sex?

by | May 8, 2019

Interesting fact: about 60% of women and about 70% of men cherish sexual fantasy in their heads in the form of group sex. The three most common fantasies are threesome sex. Probably, the fantasy itself only excites, as only 20% of the “dreamers” decide to go for it.

Threesome is a great way to diversify sex life. Despite that many dream about it, not everyone has the courage to realize their imagination. The main problem is the careful approach to the people involved and the smooth persuasion to make love together. You can be sure that the consent of every partaker will bring a lot of pleasure to all participants and pleasant memories. This is why a threesome is best done with good acquaintances.

Threesome sex is definitely not for people who do not want to share their beloved with anyone else.

 

The Forms of Threesome Sex:

  • MFF – sex involving one man and two women (with or without homosexual contact).
  • MMF -Sex involving one woman and two men (with or without homosexual contact).
  • MMM – Sex with the participation of three men.
  • FFF – Sex with the participation of three women.

The commonest, however, are the first two. And one of the fastest growing ways for couples looking for a third partner for group sex is through threesome dating sites.

 

     

     

    MFF: Threesome involving two women and a man

    The most popular fantasy in healthy men is passionate sex with two girls. Each guy has repeatedly thought about the possibility of making love to several beauties at once. Some succeed, but the rest of the majority can only fantasize about it.

    The main rule of group sex with two girls is not to deprive anyone of attention. If one of the ladies feels it, the man may be in trouble. Therefore, it is necessary to perform alternate sexual activities with both partners. For example, if one started doing cunnilingus, then be kind, and attend to the other so she does not feel cheated of oral sex.

    With this type of threesome, a woman should be ready for the fact that she will not be alone in bed and should try not to feel any form of jealousy, but enjoy any form of pleasure that each gets.

     

    -Pros

    • There is always a free hand in case you need it.
    • The man, in this case, can have multiple sources of oral pleasure. Such as when one woman is giving him a blowjob, he can be giving the second lady cunnilingus. This heightens sexual ecstasy for all partners involved.
    • For couples looking for a girl, having an understanding between the participants are easily spelled out, and the third party member knows her roles and limits

     

    -Cons

    • In a case where one of the ladies is in a relationship with the man and the second lady is perhaps a mutual friend, suspicions of treason and hassle on the part of the girl in a relationship may arise if the threesome sex relationship goes go continually.
    • Saying the wrong name during the climax may bring you problems.
    • Coordinating orgasms simultaneously is even more complicated
    • King Size beds suddenly become smaller than they appear when two women and a man have a threesome, especially in kinky hookups.

     

    MMF: Threesome involving two men and a woman

    Girls are more prone to this fantasy than men. Situations like this may arise when several guys like the same girl, and she, in turn, likes both men. Some other times it can just be out of a wild fantasy on the part of the girl.

    Two men can with ease simultaneously give pleasure to one woman. While the girl gives the first partner a blowjob, the other will fuck her. And if the girl does not mind anal sex, then the two guys can have sex with her in two holes at once.

     

    Pros

    • Two men can satisfy a woman much better than one. Four hands, two mouths, two members. Double penetration. Double pleasure. One of the most common fantasies for a woman is she and two macho (or more). The lady feels like a queen, being in the focus of attention of two men at once.
    • With some sophistication of at least one of the participants, this method requires almost no training. From a woman you need only trust, then everything goes on itself. Two men will always find something to do with a woman.
    • Everyone has heard of multiple orgasms in a woman. The male body is arranged differently. Men need time to recover from ejaculation, and this threesome is the ideal option for this. While one is busy with action, the second is resting, and vice versa. Thus it is possible to provide many hours of continuous extravaganza.
    • There is no danger of transferring microflora. If there is the use of condoms, then no one will get new germs and fungi. Unlike unprotected sex, where security needs to be monitored much more closely.

     

    Cons

    • A woman must trust at least one of the men, and trust is justified. It is necessary that someone could hear: “Stop, I do not want.”
    • Four strong hands in the midst of passions greatly reduce the degree of freedom of the lady, and it is easy to overlook that something brings her discomfort. The groans of pleasure and the groans of pain are hardly distinguishable sometimes, especially if you are not very familiar with the participants. There must be someone who can stop the unpleasant woman’s actions, change her posture or amplitude.
    • In a country where homophobia may be existent, men need to be aware that they will be in the same bed with another, naked and with an erect member. And there are no options at all to avoid accidental touches. If you are frightened by the appearance of a jade rod that has resurfaced next to you, if you blush with a suffocating wave, having slightly touched something, you should refrain from such adventures. The mind is more important.

     

    General Practical Advice

    There are several important points to consider when planning a threesome.

     

    1. Most importantly: all three should like each other. If at least one participant has unpleasant feelings for any other – sex will only aggravate them. Nothing will come out of this combination. Stop and start looking for a partner again. 
    1. To interrupt an orgy that has gone too far, set a stop word with your partner(s). Anyone who hears it should immediately stop the action.
    1. Some sexologists recommend a few days before the meeting to abstain from sex, and also include in your diet aphrodisiac products.
    1. Provide a romantic atmosphere. Soft music, candles, flowers, chocolate, twilight. It is important for a woman
    1. Stock up on lubrication and contraception in sufficient quantities.
    1. It must be remembered that such decisions are taken seriously and not on a drunken head since alcohol is not the best assistant in this matter.